A rather unexpected Yaoi experience

WARNING: before you read this and complain to me be warned this post contains moderately confronting or freaky content. ^^

Okay, so you have have heard me mention Martin before. He's alright, and I don't care that he's gay. He took to following me around after Alex died. I put up with it, but yesterday something happened to make me change my mind.
I was walking towards the shopping centre on a saturday afternoon. I was alone, and there was hardly anyone else around. I was surprised when I saw Martin behind me. About 20 minutes later I sat on a seat outside having a milkshake. Martin came and sat downbeside me. I let him. Then he started Crapping on about his feelings and all that. I wasn't really listening.
Then suddenly he goes 'I miss Alex.' And I go 'Yeah....' Then he looks right at me and goes 'You remind me of Alex.' I slid a bit further away from him and said 'okay...' He was really starting to freak me out. Then he goes 'I like you, Kip. You are not like the other guys.' I was about to stand up and walk away, then he just kisses me full on the mouth, just like that. I was so shocked I couldn't move.
Then he pulled away, licking his lips. I felt like vomiting. He stands up and goes 'Bye kip' andwalks away. I ran as fast as I could, milkshake forgotten. Gah, it was just so weird. BB, I am in need of your wisdom right now.

.....How old is this guy, anyway?

I suggest telling him that you don't feel the same way about him, and that you're sorry. Even if you're not really sorry, "sorry" just makes it sound better, and might make things less.....awkward.

Hes like, 17. Thats why I'm scared of him.

Erm......17? ...And you're only 14? ......Okay, then that gives you a little more of a reason to say that you don't feel the same way(Not to say you didn't have a reason before.). He's older than you.

And he's freaky. I used to think he was okay but now.........
*shudders*

Yeah....I wouldn't mention the "freaky" part when talking to him.....^^'

So what should I say? I dont want it to be like
Kip: Ummm, Marty?
Martin: Oooh, you called me marty, are you coming on to me?
Kip: No.. Im just....
Martin: come on! You know you-
Kip:YOU WEIRDO!

....Don't make me laugh when I'm trying to give advice! () Well......maybe something like this:

You: Um, Martin?(Now...do you usually call him Marty, or do you mostly just call him Martin?)

Martin: Yes?(Or whatever he would say....^^')

You: Well.....I just wanted to say....I don't really feel the same way about you that you feel about me. I'm sorry. (And maybe throw something in about how he's older than you, and that it would be a little....weird(For lack of a better word.).)

Mostly everyone calls him Martin. He's just the sort of guy who takes every opportunity presented to him.

Yeah, seems like it......Well, hope my advice has helped a little! If you need anymore advice, PM me. ^^ Or, just post here so that others(Like the all-knowing BB)can give advice here. ^^'

Gee... 17 is way too old.

And if your straight well... you definitely need to let him know. Make sure he know's you aren't your cousin, and that he needs to move on.

Do you like him as a friend?

((You're lucky. I haven't gotten kissed yet in my life.))

(((I'm straight, still, at this point, I really don't care what I get...)))

((((I'm straight.))))

heh

Yeah, seventeen is definetly way too old.

BB: Gettin kissed is not fun. Especially by a guy.
Batgirl: You gotta feel a bit sorry for the guy.

Man, I feel so bad for you....

I wish I could give you some advice....'^^

kip wrote:

You gotta feel a bit sorry for the guy.

You don't need to feel sorry for him... He may have lost his boyfriend, but you lost your cousin, and he needs to give you time to move on instead of using you as a quick fix replacement.

He seriously needs to back off of you until he himself finds a more permanant relationship. Then, maybe the two of you can be friends.

By the way, I am 15 in about a month, and Martin turned 17, like, a week ago. He pointed that out today.
Creep.

Anyway, I spoke to my dad and uncle about it today They asked me whether I wanted them to speak to Martin. I said no, only if he does it again. Did I make the right choice?

Are you gay?

*drags hand down face*

No, Devil_101 (speaking of that, what do you want me to call you?), he's not gay....

yep i know that cos of the whole Olivia thing!
what do you mena what do you want to call me?

She means if she should call you Devil_101 or Eden.

Of course he's not gay! Jeez...

whatever i don't know?

i duno just asking, so i didnt say the wrong thing..duh like i proberly would knowing me :(

It's okay, one would expect you to ask that after reading this ^^. But I'm straight.

phew okay!, glad we got that out of he way.

^^ same here, friend.

hehe