I really need help!!!!

Hi!
I really need help. I'm a total bookworm, geek I supose and I don't take much time with my appearnce. This is really embarressing but I hate taking showers and try to avoid it as much as possible. In the past it didn't matter much because nobody was really caring about how they looked but now it does. I need help with looking better because right now?
I don't always brush my teeth
A lot of times don't take a shower
My hair is rather bushy though pretty when it's not
I don't have much fashion sense..

You see, I kind of need help on this because it's sort of like "here goes the ugly person". And, even though it may be a matter of opinon I think that if I took work on myself I could actually look good. So, the reason why I'm posting this is simply: I need some tips and advice.

Thanks!
M&M

Hi M&M!
Well, the answer to this is be yourself. Nobody's opinions can change who you are, and you should stick to being what you want to be, not what others want you to be.

So, stick with the personal hygiene stuff, but keep the fashion stuff your style!

Just be yourself!

Thanks! I also have another question. My friend(fiend) always tells me I look bad. How do I know it is true or not?

Well, ask her straight out. If she doesn't give you a proper answer, consider if she's a real friend or not. If she's just joking, tell her to stop if you don't like it.

Try to forget about other people's opinions and be yourself! It's the inside that counts

Thanks! And, yeah she really isn't but since I don't have much choice on live friends(I don't know many people) so I just sort of deal with it.

Well, you shouldn't have to deal with it. Talk to other people, that's how I got my best friend when my other friend wasn't treating me right. Maybe think of someone you know who's nice, and approach them. Good luck!

i used to wear loads of black n people thought i was a goth. i still wear loads of black n grey but i also wear loads of spongebob tops and muppets n sesame street nsnoopy tops aswell.
well the point is dont let other people put you down n talk to loads of people n shower n brush your teeth(but to tell the truth i dont do my teeth as much as i should do)n use deoderant!

hiya i aggre with lozza Nobody's opinions can change who you are and i think u rock =]

i agree with fudge people call me goth too. no one can change who you are

Yeah, go fudge! My stupid sisters call me emo-kid! Just because I accidentally cut myself!

i got a burn mark on my arm and my school called me the emo elf

sorry

Hey It happens But u know what to get some fasion sense Ill tell ya some stuff Dont wear yellow dresses EVER Orange no Green no Unless It has black in it than yes but U know Yellow is in but for dresss NO!!!! Deniem Skirts with leggings are sooooo Cute um polka dots are intoo![b]

um....hm......erm......yes um...*sigh* what?

I second that.

Heh heh. Well, I'm, sure M&M is grateful for the advice!

Yeah. Whatever the advice was.....

Heh heh...

*sraches neck* i thought that was advice...

I couldn't really understand what she said....

Understand what who said?

What comeonover said.

Oh, okay. You just gotta read it carefully ^_^

hmmmmm.....i trrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrryyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy